Tag: dealing with provocation

Ever heard of “reactive abuse”? It happens when someone pushes us, pokes at our buttons, and provokes us until we snap—and then they make it seem like we’re the problem. It’s a pretty sneaky tactic. Imagine holding a match to a candle—it might stay still for a while, but eventually, it will catch fire. That’s…… Continue reading When the Victim Becomes the Villain: Understanding Reactive Abuse